Today during math, my daughter began to really complain about a lesson that she claims she had completed on a previous day. Now mind you it was on her daily planner as a new assignment, and although she did not have any record of completed work in her notebook, she was holding fast to her claim. So, since it was just a review of everything she has done in the last week I did not bother with trying to prove my point. Frankly, I was not in the mood for the parent-child argument. The child can be quite the drama queen especially when she believes herself to be right.
In view of that fact I moved her on to the next step on the agenda which was an assessment. During this time both she and my son are doing math. She gets to a point where she has trouble with a problem, and I say to her very matter-of-factly "maybe you should have done the review." Well that caused a slight rise in her, that yet again I decided to not give audience to. The interesting aspect of this scenario is that I did not have to say anything, because the big brother stepped in. As she is ranting he says to her "you really shouldn't complain about doing reviews. Even though you have done the work before, it's just good practice. I don't really like to go over my math facts everyday, but I listen to mom and do it anyway. And when I am doing my work I get more answers correct because I've been practicing. It's just better for you Indya...Listen to me I'm just trying to help you out." (insert raised eyebrow from mom watching silently on the side)
That was a moment of pride for me. It showed me that even though the children sometimes give me a hard time, they are hearing me. It may be a insignificant point to some but it was a big step forward to me. It showed maturity and growth with my son and perhaps that a sturdy foundation is being laid for good study habits...I hope. :)